My Husband Demanded a Sixth Baby Just to Have a Son – So I Let Him Handle Our Five Daughters Alone.
When my husband gave me a scary demand, he didn’t expect me to stand up for myself and our kids. The lesson I taught him showed him how unfair he was being when we already had so much to be glad for. His demand ended with him begging ME for mercy! I never thought I’d be in this spot, but here I am, at a big moment. I was pushed to take bold steps when my spouse cornered me with one request. But that request was enough to make me act. My husband, Silas, has always been a kind dad and a great worker. He’s taken care of our family and spends lots of time at work. This has let me stay home and raise the five awesome daughters we already have. But lately, his dreams of having a son “to carry on the family name” have turned into demands. And those demands have become threats! “Vera, we NEED to have a sixth kid,” he said one night after supper. His tone was serious, almost mean. “Silas, we already have FIVE daughters. You want me to keep having babies until we get a son?” I replied, feeling the tension rise. “But aren’t kids a joy to you? Is it really that tough?” His words hurt. We’ve had this fight lots of times before, but this time it felt different. It felt like a demand. We kept arguing in circles, neither of us willing to give in. Our fight grew until he hinted he might think about DIVORCING me if I refused to have a son for him! “Are you saying you’d leave me if I don’t give you a son?” I asked, my voice shaking. “I didn’t say THAT,” he mumbled, looking away. But the hint was clear. He was willing to think about divorce if I didn’t do what HE wanted. That ended our fight as we went our separate ways to get ready for bed. That night, I lay awake, thinking about our talk. How could he be so quick to dismiss the life we’d built together? Our daughters are great, each one special and full of life. I couldn’t picture our family any other way. I needed to make him see what he was asking of me, of us. And you know what? Before shutting my eyes and falling asleep, I decided on a smart way to SHOW him EXACTLY what it meant to raise five kids ALONE! The next day, I woke up really early while everyone was still asleep. I packed a bag and drove to my late mom’s old country house. I turned off my phone’s sound and ignored all his calls and texts. After making myself breakfast and a hot cup of coffee, I settled in to watch my favorite show for the day: “The Mess When You Leave Your Husband Home Alone with Five Kids.” I watched everything live through the security cameras we had at home….. (continue reading in the 1st comment)
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